How to Forgive When You Can’t Forget
You want to forgive. You just do not want to pretend it did not matter, ignore wisdom, or reopen the door to danger. This Bible-based guide gives you a clear path forward and answers the hard questions people actually ask.
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How to Forgive When You Can’t Forget
You want to forgive. You just do not want to pretend it did not matter, ignore wisdom, or reopen the door to danger. This Bible-based guide gives you a clear path forward and answers the hard questions people actually ask.
Amazon fulfills and ships every order.
About Ricky Ray
Meet The Author
Ricky Ray is a pastor, counselor, and author who helps people understand the Bible so the Bible can come to life. He writes with one aim: to bring biblical clarity to real pain and to help people walk in freedom without pretending the wound was small.
About Ricky Ray
Meet The Author
Ricky Ray is a pastor, counselor, and author who helps people understand the Bible so the Bible can come to life. He writes with one aim: to bring biblical clarity to real pain and to help people walk in freedom without pretending the wound was small.
What this book is
A book you can read straight through, and a book you can use when you are hurting.
The Four Types of Forgiveness
Not every situation is the same, so the first part of the book gives you a simple, biblical map for what forgiveness should look like in different kinds of wounds.
The Forgiveness FAQ
The second part is a reference tool: stand alone answers to the questions people ask when forgiveness feels confusing, unsafe, or exhausting. You can open to the question you are facing and get a complete, Scripture-rooted answer.
What you will find inside
A clear, biblical definition of forgiveness that does not minimize evil
Help for the replay button in your mind when the memory keeps returning
Guardrails for wisdom, boundaries, and safety
A path for forgiveness when there is no apology, no closure, and no resolution
Scriptural clarity on justice, consequences, repentance, and restoration
A “Quick Finder” so you can locate the chapter you need in seconds
Who this is for
This is for you if
You are trying to forgive, but you still feel stuck in anger, grief, or fear
You have been pressured to reconcile when it is not wise or safe
You want to obey Christ without betraying the truth
You are a pastor, counselor, or small group leader who needs a trusted resource to recommend
What you will find inside
A clear, biblical definition of forgiveness that does not minimize evil
Help for the replay button in your mind when the memory keeps returning
Guardrails for wisdom, boundaries, and safety
A path for forgiveness when there is no apology, no closure, and no resolution
Scriptural clarity on justice, consequences, repentance, and restoration
A “Quick Finder” so you can locate the chapter you need in seconds
Who this is for
This is for you if
You are trying to forgive, but you still feel stuck in anger, grief, or fear
You have been pressured to reconcile when it is not wise or safe
You want to obey Christ without betraying the truth
You are a pastor, counselor, or small group leader who needs a trusted resource to recommend
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Get the free printable:
The Forgiveness Quick Finder + Four Types Forgiveness Map
One simple download that helps you use the book as a reference tool. You will get:
A one-page map of the four types of forgiveness
A one-page Quick Finder to match your struggle to the right chapter
A short “How to use this FAQ” guide
Frequently Asked Question?
No. Forgiveness releases personal vengeance to God. Reconciliation requires repentance, rebuilding trust, and wisdom.
Forgiveness never requires you to remain in danger. Obedience to Christ is never obedience to harm. hbghvhvhvhv hbghvhvhvhvhbghvhvhvhvhbghvhvhvhv hbghvhvhvhv
That is not proof you failed. Scripture treats the mind as a battleground and shows you how to renew your thoughts with truth.
Ready to take your next step?
Buy How to Forgive When You Can’t Forget on Amazon and start with the section that meets you where you are.
Or get the free Quick Finder + Forgiveness Map first.