Becoming a parent.

Even if you already have a loving relationship with your child those early difficulties can effect your confidence, make you feel like a "bad parent" and question every decision.

I help parents who tried to 'deal with' their children problematic behaviour following conventional advise with little success. Even after diagnosis and many sessions of therapy there is no significant change. If that sounds familiar you may instinctively know that you need to connect differently with your child but don’t know where to find this help.

Things may feel difficult, lonely & uncertain rather than peaceful and safe.

What I hear a lot is that even when a dream of having a child comes true, a dream of having a happy, easy-going family may still feel far away.

Good connection gives foundation for understanding and willingness to change and adjust. This is true in both a parent-child and a therapeutic relationship. Bonding is a loving commitment to each other for life.

So how can you lovingly connect and bond with your child for life?

⚡ First, you remove the negativity, trauma and unhelpful stress patterns that stop the oxytocin flow in yours and your child's body.

👪 Secondly, you learn about your child, the spectrum of possible expression of their uniqueness. You see how they character can develop positively despite any conditions.

❤️ Thirdly, you learn about yourself and the way you can express and receive love so you feel cared for and nourished and you can nurture others.

You are so important! You are giving a new life to a child ... and it all can be very intense, exciting, daunting and exhausting all at the same time...

Sometimes you have an instant connection, sometimes you have to work at it and sometimes, even though it feels right, it is very hard going. This is because we are unique souls coming together to learn from each other in this lifetime.

Whatever stage of adoption process or parenting you are at I'm here to guide you and help you prepare your body, mind and emotions for the most positive parenting and family experience you can have.

If you found me I would love to meet you:

Free, 'A step closer' conversation.

During the session we will identify your most relevant struggle and gain clarity how to resolve it.

This will give you a chance to experience my work and move through most pressing mental or/and emotional difficulties.

I promise to treat our conversation with respect , compassion and kindness. This will be completely confidential and I know you will find it beneficial.

I love offering this session because not only I get to make a difference but also, these conversations always inspire and help me deepen my understanding of the challenges that you face as a parent.

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