Deciding whether to stay or leave your relationship is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make.

It can be confusing & overwhelming, which leads to analysis paralysis.

You're on the fence because you aren't sure if you want to stay, but you're not ready to leave.

And so you sit there, hoping for a miracle to guide you to clarity.

Unfortunately, the longer you sit on the fence, the more 'normal' it becomes, which makes it even harder to decide.

This program is designed to guide you through everything you need to consider while you're on the fence, so that you can make a clear, thoughtful decision.

By the end of this program, you will:

  • Feel confident in your decision

  • Understand what's really going on in your relationship, and whether the issues are solve-able or not

  • Know how to communicate your decision in a healthy way, with those who matter most.

  • Release the emotional burden of indecision and step into a future aligned with your desires

  • Take action to move forwards, whether you decide to stay or leave.

Here's what's included in Get Off the Fence:

  • 6 training videos that guide you through every step of the decision process.

  • 6 workbooks you can download with journal prompts to deepen your learning

  • bonus resources

  • one year membership to The Phoenix. This includes group coaching calls twice monthly, for guidance, support, strategies and community. ($500 value)

  • A copy of The Divorce Planner (if you decide to leave). This is an enormous resource of everything you need to consider when planning to divorce.

Module 1: What is the Fence? Learn why being on the fence is beneficial, how to use this time wisely, and what to do when you're there. Also, how it can be dangerous to stay too long on the fence and how to make sure you're not wasting your time.

Module 2: Staying. I'm giving you all the information you need to understand if your relationship is salvageable, and if so, what you need to know in order to go all in on trying to make it work.

Module 3: Leaving. Learn what's really going on in your relationship and how to know if it's time to leave. I'm asking you the hard questions that will bring you clarity.

Module 4: What about the kids? If you have children, you need this one. You'll learn if 'staying together for the kids' is a viable reason, and if not, how to make sure that you're considering their needs along the way.

Module 5: Get Ready to Jump. You'll learn the strategies and support you need to put in place before you take action, whatever you decide.

Module 6: Nailing the Landing. It's time to jump off the fence. Whether you stay or leave, here's what you need to consider and plan for.

FAQ

Don't worry, we've got you. Here are some answers for your questions.

How much time will this program require?

You can work through this program at your own pace. All videos are pre-recorded. That being said, I recommend you go through one module per week. This gives you time to sink into the learning and really dig deep.

I've been in therapy. How is this different?

This program is very different from therapy. As one client told me, "I've been in therapy for ten years, and I got more out of one session with you!"

Why? Because therapy helps you understand WHY you're struggling. Coaching with me helps you understand WHAT to do about it.

I already know I need to leave. Will this program help me?

Absolutely! This program will help you feel confident in your decision, and, most importantly, will show you where your work lies, so that when you do leave, you'll be clear on what you're responsible for so you don't repeat the same patterns in the future.

What's the deal with The Phoenix?

There's a huge reason why I'm including a one year membership in The Phoenix. This program will give you the information you need. However, every person's situation is unique, and knowledge only takes you so far. The Phoenix is where I 'get in your biz-ness!!!' and I coach you specifically, on your situation.