F*ck The Rules: A rebel mom's guide to thriving in a patriarchal world
A self-guided audio course & workbook that shows you how to stop wasting energy on all the “shoulds” and start living by your own damn rules. Think less guilt, less stress, and way more space for the mom (and human) you want to be.
What you’ll start doing when you join:
⭐Start hosting birthday parties without the Pinterest-perfect pressure—throw a party that leaves you with energy to enjoy it. (Goodbye “good mom must be perfect” rule)
⭐Start showing up fully for your life instead of trying to do it all like a circus performer juggling flaming toddlers and laundry. (See ya, “mom should do it all by herself” rule)
⭐Start wearing clothing that you’ve been told is too much—the shorts, the little black dress, the red lipstick, whatever sparks joy. (Laterz “every single shit beauty standard” rule) *Do a boudoir photoshoot and use it on a sales page*
⭐Start giving your limited shits only to the things that really, truly matter—your joy, your family, your sanity, reading fairy smut, shopping for craft supplies, and hitting a mid-day yoga sesh. (Peace out “Do everything for everyone” rule)
⭐Start reclaiming your time and energy so you can enjoy the little moments—like sipping your favourite morning fancy drink while it’s still hot, reading one extra bedtime story, having a steamy hot shower with your fancy lemongrass soap, or stepping out when things feel like a lot. (Farewell, “Moms are meant to sacrifice themselves” rule)
Are you the right mom for the course?
This is for you if you’re tired of hustling for invisible gold stars, resent carrying the mental load like it’s a full-time job, and are ready to stop giving a damn about rules that were never written for you anyway.
If you’re looking for a one-size-fits-all parenting formula, a magic fix, or a way to keep grinding yourself into the ground, this isn’t it.
Do you want to break the rules that make every day feel like a to-do list marathon and reclaim your energy for the moments that matter?
Do you want to ditch the rules that say your sanity is negotiable and finally feel calm, present, and in control?
Are you ready to stop giving your energy to everyone else’s expectations and start living on your own terms?
Imagine saying “Heck yes” to doing something that brings you joy, a mid-afternoon walk, a messy baking experiment, or a spontaneous coffee with a friend, without a single ounce of guilt.
Imagine sitting down at the end of the day, feeling calm and satisfied, knowing that your time, energy, and choices were spent on what actually matters, not what social media, your mother-in-law, or your inner critic told you to do.
Imagine making a parenting choice that feels right in your gut, such as skipping an extra chore or saying no to a playdate, and feeling solid, confident, and proud—no second-guessing, no apology, just trust in yourself.
On the Inside
Once you enroll, you’ll get instant lifetime access to the course.
It includes 6 easy-to-listen-to audio guides (or video if that’s your jam) that guide you through 5 steps to start breaking the rules that have been holding you back.
The audios are short, actionable, and perfect for listening on the go—whether you’re pushing a stroller, cooking dinner, or shuttling kids around. Short audios, big results.
There’s also a workbook if you want to dive deeper. I see you, Type-A moms who love putting fancy pen to paper—it’s there for you, but optional.
All for $35 CDN
This is for you if…
You’re done hustling.
You want your sanity back.
You’re ready to parent on your own damn terms.
Walk away empowered, energized, and in control—ready to break the rules that never served you.
Meet Randi
Part-time camp counsellor, part-time health coach for moms, and full-time rebel against the idea that motherhood has to mean sacrifice and stress.
I’m raising a wild little girl while showing her (and you) that moms are allowed to rest, have fun, and set boundaries—without guilt. Because somewhere between the “organic meals,” “limit screen time,” and “smile through it all,” we lose ourselves. I know I did.
The truth? There’s nothing wrong with you. You’re just stuck in a system designed to keep moms exhausted and small. And I’m here to help you unsubscribe.
Through coaching and community, we ReWild—remembering who we were before the world told us to behave. Whether it’s at my women’s wellness camp (hello, karaoke under the stars and yoga in a field) or inside The Den, you’ll ditch the “shoulds,” reclaim your joy, and thrive—because you are so much more than “just a mom.”
You’ve Got Q’s, and I’ve got A’s
What happens after I enroll?
You’ll get instant lifetime access to the course. No waiting, no schedules—start breaking the rules today.
When will all of the course content be available?
All 6 audio guides and workbook materials are available immediately. Listen on the go, binge, or take your time: your pace, your rules.
Will this course always be available?
Yes! Once you join, it’s yours for life. Come back anytime you need a refresh, a reminder, or a little rebel mom boost.
Can’t I just learn this in a book?
Sure, you can read a book… but that’s like reading about swimming instead of jumping in the water. (And let’s be honest - most parenting books are either a) written by men, or b) full of patriarchal bias.
This is all my knowledge after years of coaching, and I have *yet* to right a book.
What kind of support will I get in this program?
You’ll get direct guidance through audios and workbook prompts. Feel free to DM me any questions.
Can I work 1:1 with Randi?
Yes! If you want personalized coaching, there’s an option to work with me 1:1—but it’s totally optional. The course works on its own too.
What is the refund policy?
Because this is digital access you get immediately, but if you don’t think it’s for you, send me a message within 30 days and you can get a full refund.
What’s the difference between this course and The Den?
Fck the Rules is short, rebellious, and actionable—designed for moms who want results now. The Den will also help with this, and a whole lot more.
What do I need to do / be / have before I join?
Just be a mom who’s done following rules that don’t work for you and is ready to take action. No special equipment, experience, or Pinterest-perfect skills required.
How much does it cost?
$35 CDN. And after if you want to be an afflilate we can make that happen!