Stay Accountable Membership
A community for white people committed to unlearning, taking action and building safer futures for all our children.
We don’t dismantle harmful systems by wishing, signalling or feeling guilty.
We dismantle them through ongoing accountability, community practice and the courage to tell the truth even when comfort calls us back.
The Stay Accountable Membership exists for white people who refuse to look away.
People ready to step beyond performance, defensiveness and avoidance into the slow, steady, necessary work of unlearning whiteness and transforming behaviour in real time.
This isn’t performative allyship.
This is accountability in action.
Who this space is for
This membership is for you if:
You recognise that white conditioning doesn’t disappear with awareness, it requires ongoing practice
You’re raising children and want them to inherit something better than what we were handed
You lead, teach, parent or work with others and want to ensure you are not unconsciously causing harm
You’re willing to sit with discomfort and use it as information rather than shame
You understand that real change is relational not theoretical
You want a space that keeps you awake, supported and accountable
What the Membership Offers:
Member-Only Video Lessons
Regular videos that go beyond surface-level learning into the deep, practical unlearning required for white people to understand power, impact and responsibility.
Collaborative Content with Global Majority Educators
Hear directly from people who live with the realities white people must learn to challenge.
These are not token guest spots, they are co-created sessions rooted in truth and lived experience.
Action-Based Resources
Guides, reflection tools and scripts to support your anti-racist practice at home, at work and in your community.
No fluff.
No theory without action.
Monthly Reflective Call
A structured space where we examine the actions you’ve taken, the silences that held you back and the next steps required to keep you moving forward.
Community Connection
A space where you’re not doing this alone.
Accountability becomes easier when you’re surrounded by others walking the same path, committed to the same future.
Direct Support from Nikki
Bring the real situations you’re facing.
Whether it’s something in your child’s school, your workplace, your family or your own internal blocks, you will receive grounded, honest support that helps you move forward with empathy.
Why This Membership Exists:
Because white people have caused, benefited from and upheld systems that harm communities every single day and unlearning that conditioning is lifelong work.
Because guilt changes nothing and silence protects the systems we say we oppose.
Because our children’s children deserve a world built on equity, safety and truth, not denial.
Because isolation keeps white people stuck in cycles of shame, avoidance and inaction.
Community opens the door to growth.
And because staying accountable is a skill, a practice and a commitment, not a moment.
Why There Are Different Spaces
Why the Membership Centres White Unlearning
The Stay Accountable Membership is intentionally designed for white people.
Not because Global Majority communities are excluded, but because the work required in this space is about dismantling the behaviours, conditioning and power structures created and upheld by whiteness.
White people need a container where we can be honest about the harm we’ve inherited, the roles we play, the silence we carry and the power we hold, without placing emotional labour on those already living with the consequences.
This membership keeps that responsibility clear and keeps the work grounded in truth, not performance.
Why I Also Offer Power Hours for Global Majority Mums
Across my platforms, more and more Global Majority women have come to me saying things like:
“You’re the only white woman I feel safe speaking to.”
“I’m scared for my children.”
“I don’t know how to protect my family in this climate.”
These women are not asking for the membership.
They are asking for safety, strategy and support in a moment where far-right nationalism and state violence are creating increasingly hostile environments.
The Power Hours exist for them, to provide practical guidance, emotional grounding and community care from someone who understands systems, youth work and safeguarding, and who refuses to centre whiteness in their pain.
Two different needs.
Two different forms of support.
One shared purpose.
Both offerings exist because we cannot build safe communities by pretending everyone carries the same risks, responsibilities or lived experiences.
White people need a space to unlearn, take accountability and stop causing harm.
Global Majority mums deserve support that doesn’t ask them to shrink their truth or carry the burden of educating white people while trying to protect their children.
Both pathways sit under the same mission:
creating safer futures for all our children and building communities grounded in humanity, courage and accountability.
Stay Accountable, Your Commitment:
This membership will ask you to:
Listen deeply
Take responsibility
Repair when needed
Reflect honestly
Stay awake
Keep going
Not because you are bad, but because you are responsible.
Want to Stay Accountable?
If you’re ready to move from intention to impact...
from quiet awareness to everyday action...
from guilt to courageous repair...
This is your space.
Join the waitlist today and be the first to know when doors open.
Waitlist members receive an exclusive founders discount:
12 months for the price of 9 (or £15 monthly).
Your children’s children deserve a different world.
You are part of building it.
