So, I decided to Write a Book...
But First,
Why the Heck should you care?
Last year, I met the most amazing man.
We bonded over banter, dinner, and an uncanny love for similar music. In no time, we were finishing each other’s sentences and communicating with no words. The best part? We never had to work at any of this; it came so naturally.
We began a whirlwind romance, and four months later, it was over. I was left to face one of the most devastating heartbreaks of my life.
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Boo-hoo. I know breakups suck, and yes, I've experienced them before, but, NOTHING could have prepared me mentally for what I was about to experience.
I was in physical pain. My chest would literally feel constricted and I found it difficult to breathe. I lost all my appetite for life, and I couldn’t to sleep for a stretch at night.
Yes, it totally sounds like the plot of some early 2000s Bollywood movie; but really, this was my life for a few months.
What happened?
Was someone else better than me?
Was I not good enough?
Did he ever love me?
How the hell do I move on?
The questions danced around in my head like specs of dust on a light beam and they taunted TF out of me. I knew I would run mad; I needed to find answers...
The Quest...
Writing is how I make sense of the world, so I began to write.
I whipped out my journal and got dirty!
I meditated my heart out and observed deep periods of silence. I read books, cried, felt, and smiled. Through all of this, I kept writing everything down, and at the end of three months, I had a collection of scattered essays and self-created exercises that had helped me make sense of the situation and feel like my sanity was gradually returning.
I kept referring to what I had written during those months (because, hey! I need them too), meditating, going through the steps, and feeling lighter and lighter.
I didn't know what to do with the collection of essays then, so at that time, I found spaces with people like me and privately started giving the infrmation I had out to any woman that asked for it.
The Feedback...
The feedback was phenomenal. We even got a heart-felt audio tape! Lol. Here's what a few of them have to say.
I still want to cry with and hug, and laugh with all of them, because trust me, I know heartbreaks suck!
It took more than one person telling me about how relatable it felt and how transformative it was to jolt me into realizing that this should all be made into something accessible for everyone who needs it, and so began my journey…
"It was me to a T!'
"Thank you so much for sending me this, I hear it clearly in your voice!"
The Journey to becoming a Book
I put the content together into a piece, slapped a book cover up on it, and introduced the idea to a small group of wonderful women on Facebook. When thinking about a name, I remembered the first thing my best friend said to me that morning when I called her crying: “girl, f*ck him!” Haha! It was perfect.
I started sharing excerpts from the book and we had a small Valentine’s day single girl’s party (well, that was fun!). I still wasn’t sure it was still going to be a book for a while. I battled back and forth with myself and the idea. But finally, ladies and gentlemen! It’s here!
I know you will benefit a great deal from this too, so, I want to give you access to the information you want for free until the book is launched on the 21st of March.
So if you are:
- Single
- Heartbroken
- In a bad relationship
And you’re ready to take your life back, keep reading...
Meanwhile...
We had a Valentine's day party!!!
You missed our Valentine's day single girl's party, but no worries! You can still join our Facebook group,
Now back to the topic of rediscovering the badass you are...
Here it is...!
Who's this book for?
This book is for everone who's loved and lost. Everone stuck wondering what happened, what they could have done right, or if they weren't good enough.
It's for every woman who is hurting and smiling, struggling to string pieces of her life together. Finally, it for the few brave ones who will make the daring decision to take their lives back.
What's Inside?
Part 1: Grief...
1.1) I feel wronged
1.2) Was she better than me?
1.3) I want to make him pay
1.4) I want to hurt myself
1.5) Why can’t I let him go?
1.6) How do I let him go?
Part 2: The Glow-up...
2.1) Love yourself like your life depends on it
2.2) Be your own version of a Bad Bitch
2.3) The 5 Glow-up Essentials
2.4) Rediscovering “You”: A 21-day action plan
2.5) Tackling loneliness and the “Wilderness” period
Part 3: The Onward Movement...
3.1) How do I make sure this NEVER happens again?
3.2) Give your heart away so nobody can break it
3.3) There is hope: How breaking up can be the healing your relationship needs
Part 4: A few Afterthoughts...
4.1) How I got over 3 months of heartbreak in one day
4.2) What if we have a child together?
4.3) I don't know how to feel anymore
4.4) I've wasted so much time!
4.5) It's all my fault!
4.6) Dealing with the voice in the head
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P.s: This is my first book and everything you do helps me put it in the hands of one more person. I love you and appreciate your support. See you at launch! ❤️
Xo,
M'
