Betrayal Trauma Recovery and Support

ABOUT ME

Hi! I’m Sherri!

I help betrayed women not only survive—but thrive—as they step into their best lives while healing from the soul-crushing pain of sexual betrayal.

I’ve gone from being a camp counselor to a journalist, newspaper editor, graphic designer and betrayal trauma coach, so I believe that anything is possible as we learn, grow and transform.

I started my own graphic design business over 30 years ago and still find joy and healing in all things creative. I loved having the flexibility to be a full time mom to my daughter, while also being able to pursue my passion for creativity through a career in graphic design.

I’ve always enjoyed helping people. In fact, many of my most treasured (and fun) graphic design projects were labors of love (aka free work) for friends and family. Admittedly it wasn’t the best business model, but it certainly was very gratifying to help create memorable party invitations and party favors for the people I treasured the most.

So how did I make the shift from full time mom and freelance graphic designer to betrayal trauma coach? The short answer is life happened. I’ve learned that life experience, while excruciatingly painful, can be the greatest teacher and motivator.

“OUR WOUNDS ARE OFTEN THE OPENINGS INTO THE BEST AND MOST BEAUTIFUL PART OF US." ― David Richo

In February of 2020 I was completely blindsided when less than 24 hours after our full therapeutic disclosure my then husband of 21 years informed me that he no longer wanted to be married. Walking into the disclosure I truly believed we were on the path to healing our relationship, which I later learned was impacted by his secret sexual behaviors from the very beginning. Our disclosure, which was neither full nor therapeutic, was supposed to be a fresh start that would enable us to finally move forward with truth, transparency and trust. Instead it was the beginning of the end.

Leading up to our disclosure I joined a small coaching group for betrayed women, where I gained a wealth of knowledge and education about betrayal trauma, pornography addiction and sexual addiction. More importantly, I found a community filled with the kindest, bravest, most amazing women who offered me support, validation and the connection I so desperately needed.

It was through my own healing work in the betrayal trauma group that I learned I wasn’t crazy. I learned my intuition has always been spot on. And I learned that someone’s compulsive sexual behaviors have nothing to do with their partner not being “good enough”, or anything enough for that matter. Addiction is not a relationship issue, although it certainly causes problems in the relationship. Most importantly, I learned that I wasn’t alone. I leaned on my coach and my small group of betrayed women to help get me through the darkest time of my life.

I am eternally grateful for the education, validation and support I received as I was navigating this painful road. For me the next logical step was to turn my pain into purpose by helping other women heal from the devastating and long lasting effects of betrayal trauma.

I began coaching over 3 years ago and it has been and continues to be one of the most rewarding experiences of my life. It’s also helped me see how more than anything betrayed women need a safe, supportive environment to share their stories and connect with others who understand what they’re going through. In my coaching program my clients learn there is a clear path you can take to help you heal, survive and even thrive through the ups and downs of betrayal trauma, regardless of whether or not your partner chooses recovery.

On a personal note…

I LOVE walking my dog; rollerskating with my daughter; playing skeeball; creating and designing; listening to podcasts; listening to music; going to plays and concerts; game nights; entertaining; and spending time with friends and family. It’s the little everyday things in life that bring me the most joy.

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WHAT MY CLIENTS ARE SAYING!

I love reviews! They are PROOF that WOMEN JUST LIKE YOU are getting

the HEALING they need and RECLAIMING THEIR LIVES.

"Sherri Courtney has been an invaluable piece of my growth in the last two years. I love the way she creates safe spaces for people in her coaching groups. She already has a wealth of knowledge and life experiences that help her connect to those she works with, but she is also constantly learning new methods and techniques to add to her toolbox. I was in a dark place when I joined an online support group facilitated by Sherri, and I can honestly say that her guidance and support helped to transform my suffering into healing."

D.H.

CLIENT

"I cannot say enough about the positive impact Sherri has had on my life. Before I met her, I was struggling with bad advice from a marriage counselor and with a lack of boundaries after discovering my husband's pornography and sex addiction. Sherri connected me with resources and other women who supported my growth in the painful, heartbreaking recovery process. Sherri was empathetic, honest, encouraging, and on my side. I reached out to her during the worst moments and felt like I finally had someone who understood my pain. She also helped me process unresolved grief. I am incredibly grateful for the work I have done with Sherri."

C.S.

Client

"I have been coached by Sherri for a lot of this year and have found her support an absolute lifeline while going through this most traumatic time of divorce and betrayal trauma after sexual addiction. Sherri is wise, patient, and understanding of this betrayal journey. Her depth of compassion and knowing, having walked the path, is so validating and comforting. I highly recommend working with Sherri as part of your healing journey - I really don't know what I would have done without her and the groups that she runs while going through this highly stressful and lonely time."

J.S.

Client

"My coaching experience with Sherri made a phenomenal difference in my healing from betrayal trauma. Sherri is compassionate, supportive, and sincere. She offered practical recommendations to struggles I faced. She listened intently and with curiosity about my story and my experiences, and shared from her own experience at the right moments. I am so grateful that I was led to Sherri to coach me through betrayal and pain."

M.L.

Client

"Sherri has been amazing since the first day I met her. After going through infidelity with my previous partner, I found myself with feelings I had never experienced and a life that I would have never expected. She helped me navigate through that intense journey, and ALWAYS made sure I knew I had support. She kept me accountable and taught me tools for my own healing. The compassion and communication I received from Sherri has been invaluable. I felt very lost and alone, and knowing that someone was there to help remind me how lovable and valuable I am really helped me out of that."

S.L.

Client

"Coaching with Sherri always left me feeling understood, supported, and more prepared and encouraged to make healthy changes and decisions I needed to make going forward. I felt seen and valued. I learned that I can trust myself and that I wasn't asking for too much when it came to what I needed or wanted in my relationship."

T.S.

Client

"Sherri is very knowledgeable in betrayal trauma and addiction and is kind, considerate, compassionate and validating. She’s easy to talk to and a good listener and can lead a group and encourage group participation. In a short time, she not only became my mentor but also my friend."

K.T.

Client

"When I signed up for coaching after experiencing betrayal trauma, I didn't know what to expect, I just knew I needed help. Being a part of Sherri's coaching program, I found a group of women who stories closely mirrored my own, I found a caring and compassionate coach who helped me with tools and resources specific to my situation and struggles. I was empowered and supported throughout my healing journey."

L.H.

Client

"Sherri Courntney is very knowledgeable in her areas of expertise. She shares her wisdom with her clients in a very compassionate and respectful way. She meets each client where they are in their growth process and never pushes. Instead, she helps clients develop the insight that they need in order to make healthy decisions for themselves going forward. Sherri has been a tremendous help to me during my darkest time."

K.M.

Client

Safety • Validation • Education • Connection • Support

Healing happens in community.

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