Rock Your Remarriage!

A Webinar for Blended Family couples, Dating Parents, and Future Stepparents

Learn the Biggest Mistakes couples make in their Second Marriage and how to fix (or avoid) them

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A Happier Home for Your Blended Family

You expected some bumps in the road when you moved your families together but you're at a point where the parenting books, positive affirmations, and divorce recovery podcast are not helping.

You're not alone!

over 60% of second marriages in the United States end in divorce

Even if you were great at relationships in your first marriage, being a second-time spouse requires different tools and skills. This is even more true for parents who bring two families together into a new shared home.

Blending Families is complex & often involves

  • Co-parenting with ex-spouses and current spouse

  • Balancing new family dynamics while honoring the past

  • Managing children's divided loyalties

  • Navigating new sibling dynamics

  • Finding the time to do it all

Second Marriages are unique & often carry

  • Emotional scars and insecurities

  • Financial strains

  • Old relationship patterns

  • Ex-spouce entanglements

  • Pressure to get it right this time

You were never taught how to navigate the unique challenges

There are no relationship101 classes in high school and even the most loving parents rarely know how to pass down these essential skills, let alone the additional considerations that arise in second marriage.

Society glorifies unhealthy romantic relationships and blended family movies are often fun light-hearted comedies with unrealistic paths to blissful outcomes.

If you come from a broken home, you’ve done the best you could with what you had—but it may not have been enough to build the relationships you truly desire for yourself and your family.

And if you were raised with step-parents you've likely experienced more confusion than clarity on the subject of marriage.

Scientific study results and evidence-based tools and processes are available, but few have access to this information. Even family therapists have to go outside of university to learn (and unlearn) best practices for supporting couples.

So, couples and parents are left to figure it out on their own.

If You Desire-

  • A closer relationship with your kids and step-kids

  • A home that is filled with laughter, peace, and joy

  • To model healthy relationship patterns for your children

If You Want Your Kids to-

  • Have a safe, stable, and consistent home

  • Experience acceptance and love

  • Practice positive relationship skills while they are young

But bringing your families together feels

more like managing two rival teams while—

you’re caught in the middle, exhausted and

worried about what will happen next

Don't Despair! There is another way.

You can move from Survival Mode to Connection and Joy!

In the Live Webinar, You'll Learn the Top Mistakes

Remarried Parents Make when Blending their Families

Following a few simple principles can make a huge difference in bringing your families together

Couples Unknowingly Make in Second Marriage

Provide a model of marriage for your children where they learn how to resolve conflict and nourish relationships

How to Fix or Avoid Making These Mistakes

No matter how long you've been remarried or the age of your children the family will benefit from your efforts

Bonus Material for Live Attendees

How to Best Support Your Children During Big Change

You can help your children adjust to the changes and big feelings that come with your new family dynamic.

Our children were on board with our marriage, but one thing my husband and I didn't fully realize when we blended our families was the extent of their loss and confusion. While we did our best, we now know a much better process for helping our children feel secure, heard, and respected during this type of transition.

Your Host

Barbara Neufeld

I come from generations of broken marriages and separated families—Where unhealthy patterns like poor boundaries, explosive fights, co-dependency, drama, and betrayal were the norm.

Determined to break the cycle, I still found myself repeating it—twice. Despite my best efforts, I ended up divorced with two amazing kids and no clear path to a better way.

At first, I thought I just hadn’t found the right person. But deep down, I knew it was more than that. I was carrying my own unhealed wounds, fears, and ingrained patterns into my relationships—without even realizing it.

Then one day, I saw it—how my children were absorbing everything.

  • They heard the arguments

  • They felt the tension

  • They watched as love turned into resentment

I realized this wasn’t just about me.

If I didn’t change, they would carry these same patterns into their romantic relationships.

That thought stopped me in my tracks. I refused to let this be their future.

So, I got on my knees and prayed—not just for comfort, but for direction. This time, I didn’t just pray for things to get better. I asked for wisdom, awareness, and the strength to take responsibility.

That moment changed everything.

For the first time, I took Radical Responsibility—for my choices, my emotions, and most importantly, the example I was setting for my kids.

I refused to let them grow up in the same cycles of pain. They deserved better, so I committed to healing, learning, and doing things differently.

I spent decades studying, reflecting, and applying what I discovered —While continuing to seek God's guidance.

Today, I have:

  • A loving, connected marriage

  • A peaceful relationship with my co-parents

  • Thriving, joy-filled relationships with my children

I want to help you do the same - so you can change the course of your family's future and give your children the foundation for healthy, thriving relationships.

With a unique blend of personal experience and professional training, I educate, guide, and support couples as they navigate the complex dynamics of blending families.

My journey isn’t over—it never will be. Healing and growth are lifelong, and I continue to learn every day, leaning on faith and Christ’s direction as I do.

I didn’t discover these tools soon enough to change my children’s early years, but what I’ve learned has still brought incredible healing, deeper closeness, and stronger relationships with them as adults.

It’s never too late to break the cycle. It’s never too late to create something better—for yourself, your marriage, and your family.

You don’t have to keep repeating the past.

I’ve spent years learning, testing, and refining what truly works—so you don’t have to waste time searching for answers. I can walk with you step by step, giving you the proven tools and skills to create the marriage and home you long for.

There is a way forward—one filled with peace, love, and real connection.

Let’s Rock Your Remarriage together.


Frequently Asked Questions

Here are some answers for your questions.

We encourage you to join live since some of the activities may not be included in the recording. Yes, everyone who registers will have access to the recording for two-weeks. Portions of the recording may be posted publically on our social media platforms and inside our courses.

Yes, this is a great "date" opportunity for you and your spouse.

Yes, this is the perfect time to learn the unique opportunities, challenges, and tools for dating with kids. You'll also leave the webinar with an action plan for improving your family dynamics that you can start implementing right away.

Absolutely! First, I want to recognize you for having the courage to start this learning and growth opportunity for your family and your marriage. It may feel lonely or challenging to start this journey when your partner is not yet on board. Know that it only takes one parent to create lasting shifts in your family and marriage.

Yes, you might be surprised to learn that almost all of the mistakes we make as remarried parents apply to children of any age: adult, teen, and young children alike.

2 Reasons:

Families are important to us! We want other families to have access to the tools and skills we wish we'd had when our children were still at home.

We will share a short (less than 5 minute) plug for ways you can continue to work with us.

Yes, and kudos to you for seeking to learn relationship tools before blending your families! Yes, join us and invite your dating partner. You'll learn what to do and what not to do when meeting and building a relationship with your partner's kid(s).

Yes. Studies show that engagement and retention increase when participants have their videos on and we understand that it may be uncomfortable or unavailable to some. You are welcome to turn your video on or off anytime during the live webinar.

Yes, there will be a short 5 minutes transparent share about my upcoming workshop and coaching services with Q&A at the the end of webinar.


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